Identify new healthier ways of thinking to help you overcome and respond to the intimidating factors

Overcoming Intimidation

Intimidation can happen everywhere, in all walks of life and can occur in any age group. Being intimidated by someone is a form of being bullied, it happens in school, the workplace by co-workers or the boss, when shopping and in many other situations.

Some people are not even aware that they are being intimidated, while for it others it can make their life a misery day in and day out with them suffering intimidation on a regular basis. You might even be the one who is intimidating others.

People who are constantly intimidated go through many feelings, but there are many steps that you can take to help eliminate intimidation. In order to be able to deal successfully with intimidation you first have to understand what intimidation really is, it can come in many disguises.

·        Using force to get what you want from others

·        Threatening to or using power and control to get others to do what you want

·        Getting others to believe they are more powerful than you

·        Using size or strength to get others to do what you want or threaten them

·        Holding punishments over their head such as being fired, spanking or divorce

·        Being quick tempered, angry or getting into a rage with someone to get them to do what you want

·        Behaving in a manner that has others frightened to step up to you

·        Using your wealth to get others to do what you want

·        Using racial or sexual slurs towards others

There are many steps you can take to stop allowing others to intimidate you, the first step you should take is to look at yourself and determine if your irrational, unhealthy way of thinking has allowed yourself to become intimidated by others. If you think this might have been the case then you should take steps towards

• Identify new healthier ways of thinking to help you overcome and respond to the intimidating factors
• Display your new ways of thinking and acting to those who are intimidating you, this will show them that you are no longer willing to be intimidated by them
• Develop ways of dealing with people in case they respond negatively to the new you
• See the consequences of your new assertive behavior.  

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Learning laws of attraction will help dispelling fears for a more positive outlook

Dispelling fears for a more positive outlook

Fears and phobias are something which can have an affect on anyone to some extent, while most of us can conquer our fear and most fears and phobias are dislikes more than actual phobias, for some people fear and phobia can be severely distressing and have a huge impact on their day-to-day living.

Fear and phobias obviously cause negativity and constant negativity gets us down, while some phobias and fear can be deep-seeded you can break the hold it has over you with time and help. There are various methods of help, and the more deeply seeded the fear or phobia, the more likely professional help may be advised in the form of a therapy or hypnotherapy. If the fear is only mild then you may overcome it by using self-help methods.

Understanding fears and phobias

In order to be able to conquer fears and phobias it is essential that you understand them, fear and phobia simply causes us uncomfortable thoughts and feelings when placed in certain situations. It can bring feelings such as nausea, vomiting, dizziness, a terrible feeling, a tight band of pressure around the head, pains in the chest, a feeling of breathlessness and trembling. These are all feelings that we ourselves allow to build up and take over our mind and body, dispelling fear is a matter of taking back control and putting things into perspective.

This is the basis behind curing any form of fear or phobia although if you suffered for many years it will take longer for you to recover, recovery is possible. Phobias and fear are basically exaggerated anxiety, and learning methods and ways to relax is a good start to curing fear and phobias. There are many self-help books, DVDS, courses and audio courses that can help you make a start, any self-help material designed for dealing with anxiety and stress will help but there are many specifically aimed at those suffering from fear and phobia.

Benefits of overcoming the fear

The benefits of dealing with and overcoming phobia and fear is immense and those who have recovered and overcome their fears and phobias have likened it to being reborn again, the world takes on new meaning when fears are dispelled.  A new positive outlook develops which leads to living a happier and more fulfilled life, you start to feel good about yourself and what you can accomplish in life, you are finally free to do anything and everything that your heart desires.

While there might still occasionally be some anxiety for a time when confronted by your fear or phobia, it will be unlike the intense fear that once had you incapacitated from it. Once you have realized that the key to overcoming these feelings is inside you, the fear you feel doesn’t have the same hold on you it once did and will eventually give up its hold on you altogether. 

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Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill and The Science of Getting Rich by Wallace D Wattles are two life changing books when applied.

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 You also need to be committed and have a strong determination backed by persistence and absolute certainty you will succeed. At first you get thoughts that you wont succeed but when you keep going and going things start to happen and you start getting this knowing that you will succeed. You may not be sure when or even how but you know you will find a way.

Being in the present moment brings clarity and power to create with Divine.

Meditating is a great way to clear your mind and get you closer to consciousness. Brain wave recordings will get you into a meditative state if you have a hard time the natural way. The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle explains the importance of the present moment. The Power of Now and A New Earth are great books to read when ready. If ready this book can be the of your spiritual Awakening.

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Another great spiritual book is The Shift by Dr. Wayne Dyer